It’s very difficult to understand your partner unheard desires. There is always the danger to project on him your own aspiration towards one or other form of sexual behavior, when your partner is far away from that. A frankly discussion is the only method to know, how much your aspirations coincide.
But, remember, everything should be at the right time. Choose opportune time for it and appropriate atmosphere – I doubt that your partner wouldn’t understand you and your intimate desires if you will appear suddenly in front of him in boots and with lash.
How to formulate your desires?
Try not to offend your partner when you start to discuss about some sex toys novelties, which you want to practice in bed. Formulate your desires in such manner that he shouldn’t hear in your words even a rebuke shadow. It will be bad if you start: “I will spank you just a little next time.
So, don’t be surprised when I will do it.” About that, you can say in other manner, more softly: “I think that you should like if I will spank you nest time.
What do you think about that?” Even if you are not sure that the question will not be understood even in the soft from, say the following phrase: “On my mind comes one thing now how to use one adult sex toy in bed, which we haven’t used it yet.
It would be nice, if you understand me correctly…” Of course, when you start to speak about your desires, you go to a definite risk, but, being silent, you risk achieving fewer things from your partner during your relationship.
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