Trying to determine sexual compatibility before the fact may be simply impossible. If you know someone well but haven’t been sexual together, there may be things that will give you a sense of how sexually compatible you will be.
But because most of us tend to hold our sexual cards close to our chests, the way they are when having sex may be different than the way they seem when they aren’t.
Sexual compatibility may feel unrelated to other kinds of relationship compatibility. If you’re already in a sexual relationship with someone where the sex is great but nothing else is, you may be sexually compatible but not compatible on enough other things to make the relationship work.
You may also have a great relationship but feel like there’s no sexual heat, and wonder if that’s about sexual compatibility.
Remember that you have to be the ultimate judge of this. But if the sex, the relationship, or both are good enough to want to keep, there are some big questions you can ask yourself an each other to figure out what’s going on.
But because most of us tend to hold our sexual cards close to our chests, the way they are when having sex may be different than the way they seem when they aren’t.
Sexual compatibility may feel unrelated to other kinds of relationship compatibility. If you’re already in a sexual relationship with someone where the sex is great but nothing else is, you may be sexually compatible but not compatible on enough other things to make the relationship work.
You may also have a great relationship but feel like there’s no sexual heat, and wonder if that’s about sexual compatibility.
Remember that you have to be the ultimate judge of this. But if the sex, the relationship, or both are good enough to want to keep, there are some big questions you can ask yourself an each other to figure out what’s going on.
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